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Social, Emotional, Play, And Self-Regulation Dysfunction:

Social:

__ difficulty getting along with peers
__ prefers playing by self with objects or toys rather than with people
__ does not interact reciprocally with peers or adults; hard to have a "meaningful" two-way conversation
__ self-abusive or abusive to others
__ others have a hard time interpreting child's cues, needs, or emotions
__ does not seek out connections with familiar people

Emotional:

__ difficulty accepting changes in routine (to the point of tantrums)
__ gets easily frustrated
__ often impulsive
__ functions best in small group or individually
__ variable and quickly changing moods; prone to outbursts and tantrums
__ prefers to play on the outside, away from groups, or just be an observer
__ avoids eye contact
__ difficulty appropriately making needs known

Play:

__ difficulty with imitative play (over 10 months)
__ wanders aimlessly without purposeful play or exploration (over 15 months)
__ needs adult guidance to play, difficulty playing independently (over 18 months)
__ participates in repetitive play for hours; i.e., lining up toys cars, blocks, watching one movie over and over etc.

Self-Regulation:

__ excessive irritability, fussiness or colic as an infant
__ can't calm or soothe self through pacifier, comfort object, or caregiver
__ can't go from sleeping to awake without distress
__ requires excessive help from caregiver to fall asleep; i.e., rubbing back or head, rocking, long walks, or car rides

Internal  Regulation (The Interoceptive Sense):

__ becoming too hot or too cold sooner than others in the same environments; may not appear to ever get cold/hot, may not be able to maintain body temperature effectively
__ difficulty in extreme temperatures or going from one extreme to another (i.e., winter, summer, going from air conditioning to outside heat, a heated house to the cold outside)
__ respiration that is too fast, too slow, or cannot switch from one to the other easily as the body demands an appropriate respiratory response
__ heart rate that speeds up or slows down too fast or too slow based on the demands imposed on it
__ respiration and heart rate that takes longer than what is expected to slow down during or after exertion or fear
__ severe/several mood swings throughout the day (angry to happy in short periods of time, perhaps without visible cause)
__ unpredictable state of arousal or inability to control arousal level (hyper to lethargic, quickly, vacillating between the two; over stimulated to under stimulated, within hours or days, depending on activity and setting, etc.)
__ frequent constipation or diarrhea, or mixed during the same day or over a few days
__ difficulty with potty training; does not seem to know when he/she has to go (i.e., cannot feel the necessary sensation that bowel or bladder are full
__ unable to regulate thirst; always thirsty, never thirsty, or oscillates back and forth
__ unable to regulate hunger; eats all the time, won't eat at all, unable to feel full/hungry
__ unable to regulate appetite; has little to no appetite and/or will be "starving" one minute then full two bites later, then back to hungry again (prone to eating disorders and/or failure to thrive)

COMMON PROBLEMS IN EARLY CHILDHOOD

Common Behavioral Problems in Children

Children experience behavior problems both in and out of the classroom. Read on to learn about these behavioral problems and what you can do as a parent.

Parents whose children exhibit signs of poor behavior can become frustrated and do not know what they can do to help correct their child's behavior. They find that grounding their children for getting into problems at school does not always help the situation, and sometimes causes their behavior to deteriorate further. Fortunately there is help for students who have behavioral problems.

Cheating

Cheating can start as a minor problem but left unchecked will develop into a major issue. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, www.aap.org, cheating often is due to the competitiveness of the American culture and often starts during early childhood when a child is confronted with the competitive nature of games and sports. If a child is presented with homework and sports that are too complex for them to understand and to handle, they may develop a habit of cheating as a self-defense mechanism to help them prevent failure and embarrassment.
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that parents deal with each cheating episode by teaching the child that cheating is wrong and discussing how they might have handled the situation differently. Also, discuss the stress and pressures the child is facing and make sure you, the parent, doesn't have too high expectations for your child in school and in sports. Most importantly, too severe of a punishment rarely works to correct the cheating habits.

ADD and ADHD

Attention Deficit Disorder, also known as ADD, and Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder, more commonly known as ADHD, can occur in up to 20% of children, reported a 1999 study conducted by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
Children who have these disorders often have problems focusing their attention and are easily distracted. Other symptoms include difficulty taking turns, remaining still, and keeping quiet. All of these symptoms must be present in both the school and home environment in order for a child to be properly diagnosed with ADD or ADHD.
One of the most widely-used treatments for these disorders is drug therapy. The most common drug prescribed to youth who have ADD/ADHD is Ritalin. Ritalin helps calm children and is effective in 70 percent of those treated. As with any medication, however, there can be some negative effects. Ritalin is classified among 'Schedule II' controlled substances, all of which have a high drug abuse potential. Therefore, if a child is taking Ritalin, it is important to discuss the dangers of drug abuse. Additionally, discuss with them why they are taking the drug to ensure they know that taking drugs will not solve all of their life problems.

Help is Available

Many children with cheating and ADD/ADHD problems enroll in tutoring programs. Students with cheating problems can benefit from tutoring because it increases their confidence in their academic skills. Since low self-esteem and the excessive feeling of pressure is what causes students to cheat, an increased self-confidence and mastery of skills will help combat against this negative behavior.
Tutoring helps ADD/ADHD students because they will learn and master the skills they have been missing in class. Since these students have problems focusing, they do not learn the complete reading and math lessons that are being offered at school. Many tutoring programs use interactive activities and games that keep the child focused. Additionally, the one-on-one attention will keep the ADD/ADHD student tuned in to their tutoring lessons.
If your student is exhibiting these or other behavioral problems, it is recommended that you schedule an appointment with their school counselor. Your family and the counselor can discuss the different variables at play and which treatments can best help them.
After consulting the school counselor, you may want to see a your child's physician who can refer you to a child psychologist. These psychologists specialize in behavioral problems that may be similar to those your child is exhibiting.
Remember that the goal is not to punish or embarrass your child, but to correct the behaviors. Once you implement counseling, tutoring, and/or other treatment, your child can excel in school and have a more promising future.